The Finale

We have now completed this long race in these motions of love. All the questions have been answered to the best of my abilities. The completion of these motions were a long fought out journey. We have survived the ups and downs. We have united our trust in each other and are ready to embark on the long paradise together. But don't take the glorification of the paradise and paint over the picture of the land you have new establishment in. Paradise comes with expenses, add-ons, responsibilities. But with what you have gained in your past trails together you now have the strength for the bills and payments, love for the family you have created, and a grasp of the responsibilities you now have on your shoulder. You were built to ride, now all you to do is drive.

Touching on the topic of love for a male to do, many may raise an eyebrow. The perspective you build is he is soft or giving the females ammo to fire at men, with his tips and ideas. But maybe you just didn't really dig deep enough. In order to have a healthy relationship you and your partner must have equal perspectives from both sides of the ball, in order to have a productive love game. When talking to females I have often found myself open minded and not just keeping a closed mind of my own thoughts and perspective instead of respecting my partner's feelings. Knowing when something I have done something wrong or when I have expressed a feeling that is not the proper one. Small things like these are amateur stage learnings courses that develop us for the big leagues in relationships.

People always tell me that they don't believe they will ever settle down to find the right match because they are under the notion that they make the same mistakes and will never understand anything about love. I am under the impression that people fear this feeling. They run from it when they feel that the feelings are just getting to strong and your strength can't pull the weight. They either know what love is and choose to resist it or they have never had the beauty of seeing it close. I am there for those people because neither have I, my parents love each other as people but have lost a once connection. Not to get personal but you build from the vibes around you, and if they can stand strong together still through their differences and distance, anyone can.

So I wrote this blog for those people who just need to see this complex picture in a much metaphoric perspective. Relate everyday norms to the spaces in a relationship. Like a Seinfeld concept series on the motions of love. Only written by a young soul speaking to all audiences, both young and old. Breaking apart the complex perspectives, applying my own, and putting together a more simple understandable perspective.

And there you have it, Love and All Its Motions.

The Land of Matrimony and Beyond

We both are at the top and no force can bring us down. Parallel thoughts booming in our psychological spaces. To define love is to define us, the moments we have shared, the up and down roads we have drove through and conquered, the gained knowledge about the both of us. The flaws we have accepted and the attractions we never hesitated to embrace. We are now ready for this next and final step of these motions. Who would have thought that after all of that we would end up in the place we are presently about to embark on. Not to express any prior feeling of doubt. It's just like every fear we overcome, those butterflies in your stomach never go away, it is just the imagination of their flight around your insides creates a reaction or makes no distraction. We are ready for this step and never have we felt this confident about any decision we have made in our lives. The moment we have both dreamt of but never saw coming so fast. The wedding and beyond is now what we are in pursuit of. We have now made it, and this moment we never end but live on forever until life takes its last course and the movie theater lights come on.

When two people decide to bring themselves together in marriage it is a great thing to witness and hear about. To know that love is still alive and not a dying part of today's society is a great deal of relief. Today we see so many people going through rough break ups and never seeking for that feeling again. Individuals rushing into situations they may not quite be ready for. These situations always result in a lack of knowledge about the motions of love and if any care they have to the subject of love. In today's society we have become to accustomed to the breaking down of good relationships and happy home. The ride of love is no easy task but every turn we make gets us closer and closer to the desired destination. That is why we must maintain strength between the both of us and break the code. Seeing people together, growing in life, achieving goals together, starting new life, passing on love to many generations.

These are the starting points of a new wave in the pool of our love. Through every motion we have made it through. The beginning of a new chapter in our lives is being revealed. If these spaces could talk they'll tell us to spread love, and to give any extra power we've received from up about. The spaces have spoken. We have now tied all loose ends and formed a strong bond between to two of us. Not only do we spread love around us but the energy we give off is contagious to the others around us who have prepped themselves for this enjoyable roller coaster ride. Uphill and downhill we went. But on top is where we land and on top is where we will remain.