The Get Back

The distance is like no other. We don't like what we have become use to is no longer in our reach. Now we are ready to join those positive forces together. The separation we have establish did its job for the time it was used for but now we are ready to spark those vibes again. The commitment never drifted from the either of us, we have grown apart to come back and grow stronger together.
Stronger Bonds in these moments, smoother vibes, and peak into the environment we are both seeking. You should never give up after a downfall because most situations in life are trails and test we have to get through. Steeping out of an area of comfort that you may have to adjust to making your way out of, I know is different but this is what that growth is. Seeing eye to eye and making your connection stronger between your two forces of love pull.

But these situations are not always easy. We sometimes (well maybe it's mostly guys who feel this way) feel that once we have created that stamp we have found ownership to the loving human being we have found. But the problem with that is from observations I have seen the right girls end up with the wrong guys, they fall for the poker faced lies and find themselves halfway through the motions restarting their engines. But when a person loses something that was once so close to them and they still long for and chase that feel, despite of any falling out or break up, those people are usually the one we all need to very well hold on to.

"The Get Back" is one of the most interesting topics to speak on when it comes to these motions. You ask, why is that? Well it is because of the number of questions asked, the racing thoughts of how you can express newer ways to impress the person you long for. Not only do you speak on your wrong and scream your sorrows. You also discuss your up and coming aspirations. You both know that if you survived a dark separation and evolved back together that you two are ready for the world.

This is like that new beginning. We are making that shift. I know living through these motions get tough but the strength you build when you come out of it make you and yours who you are. Hard to comprehend some may state but this is the way I have found to express these feelings. I have never seen real love, these are just my darkest thoughts about the topic.

 A fresh start. New sneakers for the next round in these playoffs. We spend our lives running up and down this court after each other, getting tired of each other, learning each other and shaping our games to one day come together like great legends have, to achieve the greatest thing. The Championship (Matrimony)

The Break Ups

What has brought us to this place? What went wrong the last time we talked? Did I say something? Did I do something that made us leave from this place of magic energy we have created? This feels like the end doesn't it. This is the very moment that we broke have had incredible nightmares about. Not just this scary thought but the idea that we are actually through this. We were supposed to stick together through these moments. This is not when you end it but this is the place we are supposed to grow stronger. Is the energy still there or did begin to die down after all the honeymooning and arguments, all of the up and down hills that we both experienced.

A dramatic shift in this space we have created. We have fell off our axis around love and now we are beginning to fall away into this galaxy we were once riding through together. This idea of separation was never supposed to be thought of but because of the let up of our built strength, energy, great spaces filled with vibes we have established together. In this moment we both know it's not over but we both know this moment of space is much needed.

We have both began to grow negativity so early in the game. We must break away from the good moments to grow through this bad moment. Both in our own separate corners awaiting the fight of our life. Not a violent one but one we both want to battle through together. But this moment of separation should not last too long. In this separation we must grow, we can't forget why we are going through these motions. Love comes with a number of them, we just have to always be ready for them.

I know for sure in every relationship this is a very scary moment we all think of. And I'm talking about a real relationship where you both equally know the love bond between you two. There is no doubt in either of your minds that the love is there. But that very moment of separation is what cause us to back track and see where we have gone wrong. The Break Up is not the end but it actual is the starting stage of the stronger part of these motions of love. We evolve from these mistakes and put aside our problems, because what is to come is something so great and bone chilling that no adjective could describe this feel.

The more experience two people have between them during the good times and the bad are what makes all stars come align. Never lose hope in any dark situation because that storm only can last but so long. There will always be a brighter side at the end of the tunnel. The hardest part about it is getting through it.

The Arguments

Trapped in these boulders of anger. Boiling inside of us is pain. We don't sense any sign of joy. Our bodies are empting themselves out. We are freeing up space for a moment we have to get through. Filling our bodies is these mixed feelings, scattered thoughts, overlapping with memories on memories. Despite this feeling boiling in us we have to always cherish these memories. Unforgettable moments we've lived through. At this very state the scary thought of a departure from this place we have found love in. But this is only one of the many speed bumps through this driving course. What is the meaning of this horrible vibe we are letting out into our great atmosphere? Where did all of this back and forth cyphering between us love artist began? Was there ever a purpose behind this moment? Do we even remember why we are doing this? Who will win this debate? The vote is in people, this dramatic election has ended in a draw. Not one of us win this battle. A battle between the both of us that is constantly fought out. But not one of us ever take a defeat. A race both of us are dying to finish but in the end no trophy is presented.

Why do we have arguments? I heard people feel that these things make every relationship stronger. I also heard that it's good to let out that NEGATIVE ENERY, but I thought we were a generation all about POSITIVE ENERY, good vibrations, great spaces of energy. What ever happened to all of that? Have we embraced an old tradition people have used to get through situations. Now don't get me wrong disagreements will always happen, we won't always see eye to eye. But on these occasion we should not always argue about them. There are many less stressful ways to get each other's points across. The letting out of negative energy will only result in the combination of the output of the negative energy by the opposite force. We get over these humps all of these issues we see deeper than usually only make us stronger. In this constant race, the ride will not always go easy. We have to remember that only the good things in life matter, we use the bad to create the good vibes. We all should be about positive vibrations. Stay in a positive zone and it only gets better from here. As mentioned before, we are constantly shaping, growing and forming into better people for the both of us. We make these great sacrifices to come to an equal zone. We want to get lost in this space, we don't want anyone to take us from this space. No argument, no negative energy, no down vibe can effect this new space we have found Lets ride together.

The Honeymoon Stage

We all start off. Excited about every movement, every moment. A kiss, a hug, we fall in love with it all. Let’s not stop now, no slowing down. A train going one hundred miles per hour, without any brakes. The racing love flowing through the both of us. Not one of us winning this race to the finish line, we are making every single movement together and moving at a very synchronized pace. This feeling of togetherness that we all experience is the universal calling of the honeymoon stage.  This is the feeling we all grow to know meant everything and nothing at the same exact time. The meaning of everything is all the love we remember, we cherish every one of these moments, especially for those bad time between us when we need something to remains about. It's as if we know each other’s strengths and weaknesses at this point but we really don't this is just the beginning. We don't want anything to go wrong in this moment we hope and pray that every day goes just like the last or even ten times better. Riding your new car with no care for a mechanics work, we feel nothing can go wrong in this moment. No outside forces can affect the positive vibes we surround ourselves around, the positive vibes we have following through our bodies. This vibe cannot be altered, changed or distorted. It can only be enhanced, embraced and cherished. The hate we have for this is much different. We grow to find out that this moment in our lives was just a young learning experience. It’s like when your moms puts you on your first bike with those training wheels that just can’t seem to stay on straight. The more we ride the more we get the hang of it, the more we vibe with our person of choice the more that connection grows between us. I can also view the ending of this stage as overcoming something. In life we grow as people, we grow through different situation, we grow through different vibes we experience. And the growth we experience through this can strengthen a relationship, in a way we get a realization of each other. Put all the child like loving we do during this stage aside and you have the growth we experience through it. All these stages in the motions of love all are growing stages. Evolving through these state. Caterpillars wrapping themselves into the cocoon. This shield of protection we both wrapped ourselves in. Blocking us from all negativity through our time of metamorphism. We shift from a young hand holding couple into a stronger more connected team of two people ready for all the remaining stages of the motions of love.

The Relationship

We start with our first impressions, the right movements, a certain feel. We move into different interactions, stronger attractions, into rapid reactions. From the sharing of a moment, to a sharing of personal space, we now feel that the next step is ready for our footsteps. The motions of love are now moving in full swing. Two people who for a duration of time lived life free with no worries of a second piece by their side now feel ready to embark on this new flame, THE RELATIONSHIP. We have now reached a very key part of the process I like to call "The Motions of Love". Ready for the late night phone calls just to hear their voice, ready for the lovely good morning text you can't wait to wake up and read, ready for movies you watch together, ready for the love during stormy weather, ready for those long rides after a long day, ready for the learning of words we love to say, ready for the fights and arguments that nobody ever wins, we are finally ready to enter into this relationship.

I see the relationship as a human being going through puberty. We are growing, evolving, shaping into what we will soon become in a matter of time. We adapt to our different environments, learn from different perspectives, see through different views but in this relationship thing we bring it all together. We are both going through this growth together. Yes this is a huge step in the process but there is still a lot of learning and teachings to be taught. This is the preamble to the constitution of love and at the end of all of the completed motions we have the last goal of matrimony, but let's not jump ahead to early in the race. Tread slowly and very carefully. You want to make all the right moves, make all the right adjustments, so we can succeed thorough these motions.

Things in life take great time and patience. We can never rush perfection, we have to let the laws of life proceed through their course and good things come to those that wait. Valued time between two people equals stronger bonds. Stronger bonds result in powerful commitments. Powerful commitment gives off a mutual trust. And mutual trust makes for a stronger and healthier relationship in the long run. I mean that's what were all here for right, to achieve that thing of longevity in both life and love.