The Relationship

We start with our first impressions, the right movements, a certain feel. We move into different interactions, stronger attractions, into rapid reactions. From the sharing of a moment, to a sharing of personal space, we now feel that the next step is ready for our footsteps. The motions of love are now moving in full swing. Two people who for a duration of time lived life free with no worries of a second piece by their side now feel ready to embark on this new flame, THE RELATIONSHIP. We have now reached a very key part of the process I like to call "The Motions of Love". Ready for the late night phone calls just to hear their voice, ready for the lovely good morning text you can't wait to wake up and read, ready for movies you watch together, ready for the love during stormy weather, ready for those long rides after a long day, ready for the learning of words we love to say, ready for the fights and arguments that nobody ever wins, we are finally ready to enter into this relationship.

I see the relationship as a human being going through puberty. We are growing, evolving, shaping into what we will soon become in a matter of time. We adapt to our different environments, learn from different perspectives, see through different views but in this relationship thing we bring it all together. We are both going through this growth together. Yes this is a huge step in the process but there is still a lot of learning and teachings to be taught. This is the preamble to the constitution of love and at the end of all of the completed motions we have the last goal of matrimony, but let's not jump ahead to early in the race. Tread slowly and very carefully. You want to make all the right moves, make all the right adjustments, so we can succeed thorough these motions.

Things in life take great time and patience. We can never rush perfection, we have to let the laws of life proceed through their course and good things come to those that wait. Valued time between two people equals stronger bonds. Stronger bonds result in powerful commitments. Powerful commitment gives off a mutual trust. And mutual trust makes for a stronger and healthier relationship in the long run. I mean that's what were all here for right, to achieve that thing of longevity in both life and love.