The Finale

We have now completed this long race in these motions of love. All the questions have been answered to the best of my abilities. The completion of these motions were a long fought out journey. We have survived the ups and downs. We have united our trust in each other and are ready to embark on the long paradise together. But don't take the glorification of the paradise and paint over the picture of the land you have new establishment in. Paradise comes with expenses, add-ons, responsibilities. But with what you have gained in your past trails together you now have the strength for the bills and payments, love for the family you have created, and a grasp of the responsibilities you now have on your shoulder. You were built to ride, now all you to do is drive.

Touching on the topic of love for a male to do, many may raise an eyebrow. The perspective you build is he is soft or giving the females ammo to fire at men, with his tips and ideas. But maybe you just didn't really dig deep enough. In order to have a healthy relationship you and your partner must have equal perspectives from both sides of the ball, in order to have a productive love game. When talking to females I have often found myself open minded and not just keeping a closed mind of my own thoughts and perspective instead of respecting my partner's feelings. Knowing when something I have done something wrong or when I have expressed a feeling that is not the proper one. Small things like these are amateur stage learnings courses that develop us for the big leagues in relationships.

People always tell me that they don't believe they will ever settle down to find the right match because they are under the notion that they make the same mistakes and will never understand anything about love. I am under the impression that people fear this feeling. They run from it when they feel that the feelings are just getting to strong and your strength can't pull the weight. They either know what love is and choose to resist it or they have never had the beauty of seeing it close. I am there for those people because neither have I, my parents love each other as people but have lost a once connection. Not to get personal but you build from the vibes around you, and if they can stand strong together still through their differences and distance, anyone can.

So I wrote this blog for those people who just need to see this complex picture in a much metaphoric perspective. Relate everyday norms to the spaces in a relationship. Like a Seinfeld concept series on the motions of love. Only written by a young soul speaking to all audiences, both young and old. Breaking apart the complex perspectives, applying my own, and putting together a more simple understandable perspective.

And there you have it, Love and All Its Motions.