Friday, October 9, 2015

The Honeymoon Stage

We all start off. Excited about every movement, every moment. A kiss, a hug, we fall in love with it all. Let’s not stop now, no slowing down. A train going one hundred miles per hour, without any brakes. The racing love flowing through the both of us. Not one of us winning this race to the finish line, we are making every single movement together and moving at a very synchronized pace. This feeling of togetherness that we all experience is the universal calling of the honeymoon stage.  This is the feeling we all grow to know meant everything and nothing at the same exact time. The meaning of everything is all the love we remember, we cherish every one of these moments, especially for those bad time between us when we need something to remains about. It's as if we know each other’s strengths and weaknesses at this point but we really don't this is just the beginning. We don't want anything to go wrong in this moment we hope and pray that every day goes just like the last or even ten times better. Riding your new car with no care for a mechanics work, we feel nothing can go wrong in this moment. No outside forces can affect the positive vibes we surround ourselves around, the positive vibes we have following through our bodies. This vibe cannot be altered, changed or distorted. It can only be enhanced, embraced and cherished. The hate we have for this is much different. We grow to find out that this moment in our lives was just a young learning experience. It’s like when your moms puts you on your first bike with those training wheels that just can’t seem to stay on straight. The more we ride the more we get the hang of it, the more we vibe with our person of choice the more that connection grows between us. I can also view the ending of this stage as overcoming something. In life we grow as people, we grow through different situation, we grow through different vibes we experience. And the growth we experience through this can strengthen a relationship, in a way we get a realization of each other. Put all the child like loving we do during this stage aside and you have the growth we experience through it. All these stages in the motions of love all are growing stages. Evolving through these state. Caterpillars wrapping themselves into the cocoon. This shield of protection we both wrapped ourselves in. Blocking us from all negativity through our time of metamorphism. We shift from a young hand holding couple into a stronger more connected team of two people ready for all the remaining stages of the motions of love.

4 comments:

  1. Between the flowing sentences and intricate similes, your blog is more like poetry with every passing week. I really like the way you talk about Love with a capital L in this post in particular. You describe and analyze romantic fascination between two individuals almost scientifically, and that makes for some cool reading material.

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  2. Austin, it is very easy to tell a person what is love is and describing it to someone, but its different for a person that actually experienced love personally and deeply. Because of this, I can easily relate and connect back to all of the things you stated, and I feel like you did a phenomenal job depicting love.

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  3. Austin, it is very easy to tell a person what is love is and describing it to someone, but its different for a person that actually experienced love personally and deeply. Because of this, I can easily relate and connect back to all of the things you stated, and I feel like you did a phenomenal job depicting love.

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