The Sex Thing

We are opening up. All feelings exposed. From the first impression to the first kiss, we feel we have expressed and felt everything we needed to share for this very important moment. Every personal barrier broken, personal space turns into a wrapped cocoon of all the feelings we have kept hidden for the amount of time we have waited to express them. This sex thing should not be taken lightly. This is the next step in this long process of love. It can be used for the greater good or abused just to let off a quick reaction, the act off a sudden impulse that can ruin a relationship between two people if one has seem to take advantage of the other.

This moment we allow ourselves into is very crucial. Not to fast, this is the time you bask in the moment. Not to slow, you don't want the joy to drift away. Just the right speed, tempo and mindset. Emotions are racing, its as if our bodies don't know if they want to leap for joy or search for comfort. Yes SEX is a amazing feeling but I know for a fact it is much deeper than that. We have exposed ourselves to our partner for the first time and the morning after is a thing of beauty. When the motions of love are used in the proper way and the feelings are real and expressed in the right manner then every step we are taking in this path to love has been the right step.

I think all of us enter this part of the relationship with mixed emotions, fear, and joy. Our thoughts aren't fully operating the way we expect them to so that gives us our mixed emotions. Fear is the funny feeling you get when presenting your senior paper in high school, you know all the information, you've done your research but you still get that funny tingle in your stomach before performing. So there's your fear component. But the joy goes without say. I can speak for the guys entirely on this one. For us its like all summer you been practicing that crossover in your backyard and you finally get to show out at the varsity basketball game. You get the picture. Now for girls I know there is more emotion involved. Not to sound explicit but in this situation we are the givers while you lay and receive, all love is expressed in this dark slow ride to love. We have finally shared the space we all know and love. Two turn to one and we share thoughts, feelings and a step of love all in one room.